Kim
can't really answer your questions about CAD programs, since I do everything the old fashioned way...........pencil and paper. by the time I learn CAD, I could have 3 or 4 plans drawn on paper. LOL.
as far as fiberglassing goes, it depends what you have underneath. in other words, what type of material as your structure. for example, if it's a balsa build, you don't need to glass for strength, so 1oz cloth is good enough. for foam, you are going to need at least a 2oz cloth, since it's going to be adding some strength and durability to the airframe. or if you have 1oz cloth, do two layers of cloth and lay them up in a criss cross "X" pattern for bi-directional strength. two 1oz layers done this way is actually stronger than a single layer of 2oz cloth, so something to think about. for a fast 90mm plane, I would do 3 layers of 1oz cloth. one in a 45 degree angle, then one along the length of the airframe, then the last layer to create the "X". this will give you the most strength for the least amount of weight. keep your layups light by using peel ply on the outer edge. this allows you to squeegee out excess resin and keep the saturation to the bare minimum needed. hope that helps for now.
for formers, every 6 or 8 inches is fine if it's a big model. if it's smaller, size accordingly. for wing ribs, every 4 or 5 inches should be fine. again, if it's smaller, size accordingly.
to answer your question about foam and glass............I do see some people doing what you suggested and then hollowing out the foam, or disolving it. this is the "lost foam" method. I believe there are cases where this is needed or even necessary, but for the most part, I would say avoid this. why?, because the foam actually adds strength if it's designed right. let's say you are going to hotwire a fuselage out of a block of foam. you make your templates, then get them straight on your block and cut the outer edge. then you possibly cut your fuselage in half and using your templates, cut the inner edge to give you a thin walled fuselage. perhaps a wall thickness of 5mm or so. then you glass the inside and put the two halves back together and glass the whole exterior. using 1oz cloth on the inside and outside, you create a 3 layer composite sandwich, which is incredibly strong and light, yet you didn't have to somehow do anything with the foam except use it as structure. there are also good points about cutting a fuse out of foam and then simply glassing over the entire surface, then melt the foam out with a solvent, ;eaving you with a glass shell. if you are going to use this method, I would suggest the glassing method described above, using three layers of alternately layed up layers of cloth. it's up to you which method you choose, but I prefer leaving some foam there for the added strength it provides. remember that the more sandwiches of material you have, the stronger the overall structure will be.
I don't think anyone on here will laugh at you once you get going. just remember to take your time and ask what needs to be asked. even if you think it's a stupid question. the only stupid question is the one not asked. if you aren't sure, ask. if you don't know, ask. even if you think you know, ask anyway. I've been modelling for 30+ years and I still ask questions, because I like to hear other people's perspectives too. I'm still learning as much as I am teaching. if you go slow, step by step and ask questions before you complete a step, you won't go wrong and you'll end up with a completed plane. everyone on this forum will see that you get where you want to go. good luck and we'll see you in a build thread, real soon.
Rich