Ok, I maidened the Night Reaper this afternoon. No night flights yet. I've had worse maiden flights but I can't say this one was smooth.
First off, I've never flown a powered wing so I had to figure out the launch technique. It was the school of hard knocks but I have it down now. TX in the left hand, holding the left wingtip with my right hand. Slowly ease the throttle to full, let the plane start to spin you in a circle, adjust it so the wing is level and let it fly out of your hand. With more experience and a lighter build I'm sure I could launch with less throttle. Previous attempts with other methods resulted in crashes or near crashes every launch. My first boomerang/punch-the-throttle launch resulted in an inverted crash.

It was ugly but luckily nothing broke. When I saw a clump of grass jammed into one of the servo horns I thought for sure the gears were going to be toasted but luckily they weren't.
So, I'm in the air and things are going ok if I'm easy on the sticks but things get ugly fast with any aggressiveness or low speed activity. It seems to tip stall quite easily and just generally behaves badly. It's so whacky it's hard to explain. I was flying high for most of the testing so I was able to pull out of most of the drastically bad behavior but one thing finally did me in. I was doing a full throttle shallow dive, approximately 40 degrees, as I got closer to the ground I started to slowly pull up but it wasn't responding much so I started to pull up at a greater rate, not much was happening. I was getting closer to the ground and it was all or nothing so I yanked the elevator back all the way. It barely responded and the plane came crashing to the ground. Luckily it did not hit nose first and instead came down with a hard belly slap that ripped the motor and mount off and flung them about 20ft in the air and 30ft away. This was the jaw dropping moment we're all familiar with.

The only other damage was a popped off winglet which a little hot glue has already fixed. After approaching the plane both control surfaces were operating properly so I'm not really sure why this happened or why the plane is just not performing in a stellar manor.
I know one thing working against me is weight and I take full responsibility for this. I added a lot of equipment for night flight thus breaking the first rule, "keep it light". My AUW is 44.4oz.
My sweep is stock, CG is spot on at 9.5", throws are setup as suggested on this page, I'm running HS-82MG servos with the control rod sleeves for rigidity, my servos fit tightly in their slots but I'm going to go over them again with hot glue to be sure they are as firm as possible. I used 10mil laminate instead of extreme tape but I do feel like the wing is quite rigid. I suppose it's possible but I am not suspicious of fluttering.
The only thing I can think of other than the plane being too heavy is the angle of the winglets. I measured improperly when cutting the tip angles resulting in a longer slant on the front part of the wingtip. I am horrible at math but I think the angle formed by the slanted wingtip section and the LE is 160 degrees. Could this improper winglet angle be the root of my problems? One other thing I haven't checked is lateral balance but I'm not sure if that would have such a drastic negative effect on handling.
I eagerly await your responses and suggestions. I'm hoping for a little RCG magic!