Originally Posted by Real Ira
Same here. I have to admit that represents one aspect of the feminine mind that just about drives me around the bend.
Thing is, here's how that works. Somewhere towards the middle, she 'decided' without saying it that unless you bend to her will & agree with her choice, she ain't going NO-damn-where (the classic "If Mama ain't happy ain't NOBODY gonna be happy") ....and shortly after that, realizing how it was going you decided that if this is the price you'd rather go by yourself but, knowing you'd never 'get away' with that you're better off not going at all. So you part, thinking you've reached the best compromise solution, but inwardly hating each other's guts & leaving you each thinking "How the hell did I EVER get stuck with this person?"