Man I am sorry to hear this. I know how you feel. I remember my first crash with my Eco 8 and I almost got tears in my eye. Dont worry you will have it in the air very soon can back to normal.
Oh, do not throw away any of the carbon things. You can use it to make thing. You blades can be fillet in to thin sheets and you can do what ever with them. I used mine to make CF tail blades for my Pic and House Fly and servo mounts for my Piccolo. Just be creative and you really get all you can get out of them.
Oh, make sure you change the bolt holding on the rotor head and that the metal arms that are screwed to the main grips are both identical.
Last, I see you didnt mention that your boom was harmed
Got to love that boom.