Yes, you can use this frame since the motor mounts form a standard quad. Can't tell about the durability and stiffness of this item - but the parts where the arms are mounted on the center plates look a bit short. If the center plate isn't stiff enough I'm afraid you can bend the arms up & down.
Other than that you can't go wrong at that price scale.
The other links are dead btw. You could use these Hobbywing ESCs:
and these motors (which look like Suppo motors):
10" props would do a good job. If you're a beginner in this hobby you should also order spare parts - especially some sets of props...