Oh, just saw the second reply.
You can either bend the pins out a bit to create more friction, or...if you want to loose all of your connector headaches, exchange them all with Deans Ultras. They are far overkill, but I have never heard of them failing.
Loosing connectoion to the motor on the SS is no problem at all. It just glides right down like a beauty!
I'll upload a vid I have - one sec.
EDIT: here's the movie:
I recommend you download it then play it off the computer.
It's not mine. I forgot who it's from, so if the owner happens to come across it, please tell me!